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What Happens in Our First Meeting WARNING: Hypnosis is not a substitute for professional medical or psychiatric care. Anyone with such problems should seek the aide of trained professionals. Prices What are your costs? NT$2000 an hour averaging a total of 15 in-session hours. So, that comes to an average of NT$30,000. That’s expensive! Yes and no. Expensive for you. Almost nothing for me. For each hour of my work, I often
must spend 3 – 5 hours preparing.
That makes it very, very inefficient cost-wise for me. Besides, many people will spend
NT$10,000, even NT$15,000 to impress someone with a nice dinner or get
themselves something that will look good. NT$30,000 with me will often change your life forever. You
can decide what your life is worth.
And consider these prices now.
I do not negotiate. There
are no discounts, unless someone I know and trust, perhaps a physician or
psychiatrist or psychologist, tells me you are a good candidate for my
hypnotherapy, highly motivated and that your financial situation is not very
good. Besides, when you are
paying these prices, I know you are really serious, you will pay attention
and you will do the homework. Interview QuestionsPrint this form off and answer the questions in writing before you come to see me. 1. What are you
currently experiencing that you would like to change? Sample
answer: I get too nervous when I
talk to strangers. 2. In which
contexts are you having this experience? At
work and a church. Anytime there
are several people in a group, and I have to talk to them. 3. What are the
positive gains of this experience? I
can’t think of any except maybe I can get out of some responsibilities. Sometimes because I get so
nervous. Then, people do things
for me. 4. What specific
change do you want for yourself?
(Speak in positive terms. Don’t use a negative word like “don’t.”) I
want to remain calm and relaxed when I speak to people in such a group. 5. What will
having this change do for you? I can look
forward to going to church and to work. I can feel like I belong to a group
of people. I might be more able
to develop more friendships and maybe even get a boyfriend.
6. In which
context(s) do you want this change? After
church on Sunday mornings, at church activities. At work during lunch time with people from other
departments in the lunch room.
At conferences where I must represent our company, especially during
tea breaks and mealtimes. 7. How will you know
you have made that change? I
will be able smile naturally and freely. My voice will be clear, loud and smooth. I will be able to go up and introduce
myself to others approach others feeling it’s okay no matter if they really
like me or not. 8. What have you
tried in the past in order to resolve your problem? I have
read some self-help books. I
have taken nerve medicine. 9. What resources
do you need in order to make this change?
I need confidence and I need to really know that being human is
more fun than trying to be a god (perfect). People say this all the time, but in my heart I don’t
really believe it. Our First MeetingUsually the
first hour is free, as I want to get to know you, your wants and whether I
think I can help you.
NOTE 1:
I do not teach people how to hypnotize other people, I do not teach
NLP® and I do not do shows. NOTE 2:
I do not allow more than three people in at the initial interview, and
no more than two in subsequent sessions. Even in subsequent sessions, no
visitors are allowed to watch us as we work together. NOTE 3:
I do not negotiate prices or give discounts, unless arranged by
certain trusted people.
Since September 7, 2004 |
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